Classmates Reunite: Touching Online Answer to 'Who Married High School Sweetheart?'
'I hadn't seen him in 30 years,' 1975 Seaholm graduate recalls of Birmingham date.
This tale of romance with Birmingham roots, posted online at the end of Valentine's Day week, is shared with the writer's permission.
Donna Jacobites and Gordon Hoyem, who knew each other from the Birmingham-Covington School and Seaholm High's Class of 1975, married in 2003. At a 736-member Birmingham memories group on Facebook, she was the first to respond early Sunday to the question "Who married their high school sweetheart?"
Here's what she wrote:
I married my junior high school sweetheart 8 years ago. After high school I moved to Manhattan and hadn't seen him in 30 years.
As a single mom, I moved back to Birmingham to be around family. I took my daughter to the Shain Park Fair and ran into a guy who used to hang out with us. He updated me on what Gordy was up to. He was divorced and living in Gaylord.
About a month later, I decided to call him. We talked on the phone every night for about six months. He came down to Birmingham that Valentine's Day weekend. We bought sushi and went to the Quarton Lake waterfalls where everyone used to party back in the day. We carved our names in the cement wall of the waterfalls.
We got married that July. A lot of friends from Covington and Seaholm came to our wedding. We had 70's music playing in the background. It was great!
— Donna Jacobites Hoyem
Postscript: The childhood sweethearts live in Gaylord as a blended family with her teen-age daughter and his teen-age son. Gordon Hoyem, who graduated from Northern Michigan University in 1978 with a business degree, is a real estate agent at Coldwell Banker Schmidt Realtors.
Alan Stamm
12:07 pm on Tuesday, February 21, 2012
More romance: Other love stories are posted after Donna's on the Facebook comment thread started by Ellen Tracey McGeagh:
* Jo Kwasny (Marian '65) and Steve Kwasny (Brother Rice '64) of Bloomfield Hills met back then and have been married 42 years.
* Nancy and Stephen Mattar of Lake Orion "have 4 kids and just celebrated our 25th anniversary," posts the former Nancy Crites. "I married my Seaholm High School sweetheart after we dated for 7 years on and off during and after college."
* Karen Lieberman responds: "I married my junior high/high school sweetheart [Mark] right after graduation. We went off to college married. That was in 1980, 32 years later we're still very happy. Have two children, 23 and 26 years old. We live in Bloomfield Hills."